A bill to amend the Civil Practice Law and Rules and the Family Court Act, in relation to Parent-Child Privileges.

LAW AND SECTIONS REFERRED TO:
CPLR §4502-a, Family Court Act §1046.

REPORT AND BILL PREPARED BY THE COMMITTEE ON CIVIL PRACTICE LAW AND RULES


THIS BILL IS APPROVED

This is an original bill proposed by the New York State Bar Association's Committee on the Civil Practice Law and Rules. It amends the Civil Practice Law and Rules to add a parent-child evidentiary privilege to the law. It also amends the Family Court Act to make clear that the new privilege does not apply to child abuse or neglect cases.

A parent-child privilege is not a new concept. It can be traced to ancient Jewish and Roman Law. See, Meredith Watts, "The Parent-Child Privilege: Hardly a New or Revolutionary Concept", 28 Wm & Mary L. Rev. 583, 591-92 (1987). However, it never became a part of the English or U.S. common law although it is the law in many other countries such as France, West Germany and Sweden. Id. at 593.

In the U.S., there has been much resistance to recognizing such a privilege. Although the Federal Rules of Evidence Rule 501 gives the federal courts great leeway in recognizing a new privilege, the majority of federal courts refuse to adopt it. In addition, only a few states have recognized it. One of those states is New York.

Although not yet considered by the New York Court of Appeals, the privilege has been judicially recognized in a series of Appellate Division decisions. In re Application of A & M, 61 A.D.2d 426, 403 N.Y.S.2d 375 (4th Dep't 1978); People v. Harrell, 87 A.D.2d 21, 450 N.Y.S.2d 50 (2nd Dep't 1982), aff'd 59 N.Y.2d 620, 463 N.Y.S.2d 185 (1983) ( The Court of Appeals held that the issue of parent-child privilege was not preserved for their review). See also, People v. Romer, 152 Misc.2d 915, 579 N.Y.S.2d 306 (Sup. Ct., N.Y. Co. 1991). The parameters of the privilege have not been specifically delineated by the courts, and therefore legislative action is necessary.

All of the New York courts which have considered the issue have held that the parent-child privilege arises out the of the Federal and New York State Constitutions' protection of the integrity of the family unit. Since the United States Supreme Court has not promulgated hard and fast rules regarding the parameters of the term "family privacy" it is not surprising that the New York courts ruling on the issue have not been decisive.

That there is a constitutional protection of family privacy is not in doubt. This was settled in 1923 with the decision inMeyer v. Nebraska, 262 U.S. 390, 67 L.Ed. 1042, 43 S.Ct. 624 (1923) which held that a state could not forbid the teaching of a foreign languages in private schools. The court has expanded this right to privacy not only to educational decisions but also to decisions regarding marriage, Zablocki v. Redhail, 434 U.S. 374, 54 L.Ed. 618, 98 S.Ct. 673 (1978); contraceptives, Carry v. Population Services International, 431 U.S. 678, 52 L.Ed.2d 675, 97 S.Ct. 2010 (1977); pregnancy, Cleveland Board of Education v. La Fleur, 414 U.S. 632, 639-40, 39 L.Ed.2d 52, 94 S.Ct. 791, 796 (1974); adoption and custody of children, Quilloin v. Walcott, 434 U.S. 246, 54 L.Ed.2d, 511, 98 S.Ct. 549 (1978); Stanley v. Illinois, 405 U.S. 645, 31 L.Ed.2d 551, 92 S.Ct. 1208 (1972) and family living arrangements, Moore v. City of East Cleveland, 431 U.S. 494, 52 L.Ed.2d 531, 97 S.Ct. 1932 (1977). Although the U.S. Supreme Court has not yet ruled on the confidentiality of intrafamily communications, there is a good chance that they will rule it is part of "family liberty".

There is nothing more fundamental to the integrity of the family relationship then the confidentiality of family communications. As stated by Justice Denman in In re Application of A & M:

Surely the thought of the State forcing a mother and father to reveal their child's alleged misdeeds, as confessed to them in private, to provide the basis for criminal charges in shocking to our sense of decency, fairness and propriety. It is inconsistent with the way of life we cherish and guard so carefully and raises the specter of a regime which encourages betrayal on one's offspring. And if, as seems likely, the parents refuse to divulge their child's confidences, the alternatives faced by the parents . . .could seriously undermine public trust in our system of justice.

In re Application of A & M, 61 A.D.2d 426, 433, 403 N.Y.S.2d 375, 380 (4th Dep't 1978).

Although Application of A & M dealt only with communications made by a minor, there is no logical reason to restrict it to an arbitrary age cut-off. See, People v. Fitzgerald, 101 Misc.2d 712, 422 N.Y.S.2d 309 (Cty. Ct., West. Co., 1979), app. dism, 76 A.D.2d 843 (2nd Dep't 1980). As stated by the court in Fitzgerald:

The parent-child relationship of mutual trust, respect and confidence, if it exists at all in the individual case, is one that should and must be fostered throughout the life of the parties. Indeed, in many cases, the closeness of the family unit may well increase as the child becomes an adult and realizes that the advice, encouragement and training by the parents had value and merit then and equal substance in later years. While the "minor" of 17 years and the parent of 40 may often be in disagreement on the values and lessons of life, the "adult" of 27 and the parent of 50 may well have enjoyed a resurgence of common values, ideals and mutual trust and respect, one for the other.

Id. 101 Misc.2d at 718-19, 422 N.Y.S.2d at 313-14.

Since the privilege is meant to protect the family unit, it should also extend to confidences told to a child by a parent. As stated in Fitzgerald, as the family gets older, the parents and child may draw even closer. Many families find their positions reversed, with the child supporting the parent and the parent depending on the sometimes better educated child for advice. See, e.g., Stroh v. G.M.C., N.Y.L.J., 3/23/95, page 25, col. 1 (1st Dep't).

Subsection a) of the proposed law covers all confidences told by a parent, parent substitute, or his spouse to a child and a child to a parent, parent substitute, or his spouse in both civil and criminal proceedings. Subsection b) makes clear that even if the statements are made in front of siblings, they remain confidential. In times of emergency, it is likely that a family crisis will be discussed among all the family members, not just to the parents in a closed room. The expectation is that the confidences will not leave the family.

Subsection c) lists the exceptions to the privilege. Because of special relationship of the State to a child and dynamics of family life, these exceptions are vital to avoid a member of a family taking unfair advantage of another. They cover situations where one family member makes a claim against the other or the issue is the welfare of the child.

The preliminary draft of this bill was amended based on suggestions from the CPLR committee to make clear that the privilege does not apply to actions between the child's parents parent substitutes or siblings or involving the estate of a deceased parent or parent substitute. At the point these actions are brought, the integrity of the family unit has disintegrated so there is no need for the privilege. It would not apply to matrimonial actions.

Some members of the committee raised the issue of third party actions where, for example, a child would sue a person who brings in the parent as third party defendant. There is no reason for the privilege not to apply to such an action. The integrity of the family unit is still intact. There is no direct action between family members. While the defendant may argue that this puts him in an unfair position, such an argument could be made regarding any privilege.

Family Court Act§1046 (a)(vii) provides in proceedings

regarding the neglect or abuse of a child, the usual privileges do not apply. The amendment to this section is necessary to make clear that the parent-child privilege also does not apply in these proceedings.

For the foregoing reasons, this bill is APPROVED.

Person who prepared the report: Kim Steven Juhase, Esq.

Chair of the Committee: Paul H. Aloe, Esq.

 

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